Hi TJ, : "moving one mess to another mess out of sight and making her unsure of what is where" and you'll be telling her it's all about keeping things interesting in the marriage, what's life without a little mystery...........??
Came from a real thoughtful space though, so I dare say you deserve a bit of credit.
But it is your first day back so I'd say you were doing really well, it can just take time to adjust/"get back on your feet"

Alison