I'm so sorry that you're dealing with this! I think baby steps are a great idea! Also, make sure you try to practice good self care even though it's probably really hard right now. You have to be in good condition yourself in order to be able to take care of others.

I have some idea of how hard this is, as my grandma who took good care of me when I was growing up had dementia, and in the later stages when I would visit, she thought I was an intruder and tried to attack me. Sometimes she would recognize me, but that was rare. Alzheimer's and other forms of dementia are devastating illnesses.

I don't really have any words of wisdom, but I just wanted to let you know that I read your message and was sending good wishes your way.

Best,
Hope