Thank you everyone for your replies that did help me. Hey ToeJam I think you are right it is like a anchor that is holding me steady which is a relief. I really don't feel I have any control over this I am just glad I feel that I got some positive out of this horrible tragedy...

I truly hope that Robin is at peace now and I pray that time will help heal the wounds his family and friends are going through. I hope they can learn to cope with this in some manner and hope they seek some counseling themselves...