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Originally Posted by hvert
It seems to me that if you are husband and wife, that makes the two of you a family. You two should be the 'first' family priority. The extended family (your parents, his parents) are second to the relationship between you and your spouse.
I agree with what you said, that it is important to support your spouse in front of your extended family. It's a little strange for him to bring this subject up anyway, especially if you are not fighting with his family. Do you know why he is doing that?
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Both of us actually do that all the time
we have concerns all the time about the future, we imagine ourselves inside some situations to be prepared for consequences or at least not to be shocked if they happen. He's just afraid it might happen.