Your partner sounds selfish, and you sound like you're more than willing to indulge her and give her everything she wants. I suggest setting stronger boundaries with her or else you'll likely see the resentment grow throughout your relationship. You've asked the question if others would move anywhere for their SO, when the bigger question should be why do you give her things that she wants when you have to surrender important things that you want? Who gives a damn about a big house if you never see your partner? Essentially she is placing the importance of the house over the importance of seeing you. Selfish people never cease to amaze me, especially in the fact that they never realize how selfish they really are.