And this got me wondering too! Last Thursday I get home and after a couple of minutes H says to me "Oh I opened this by mistake because I thought it was addressed to me." I was in the other room when he said it and then as he was bringing it to me he goes "It's from your secret lover." I said "oh goody!" in jest because I knew it was a check for a design I created for this one guy who found my name on the internet. Never met the guy but he happened to live about an hour away. H knew all about me doing this design for the guy. My take on it is that he saw a personal letter addressed to me, from somebody nearby (even though only his last name was on the envelope) and thought he'd open it to try and catch me in a tryst or something. Why else would he open a letter that was CLEARLY addressed to me?! It's like he knows he's doing all kinds of wrong by not going to work so he is trying to find something I'm doing wrong!

And as much as he brings up constantly "Oh are you going to see the pool boy today?" or "It's from your secret lover" or "You've probably been on dating sites looking for someone new" or"You look really nice today. Are you trying to impress a guy at work?" makes me wonder why in the hell he feels the need to take it there every time?! Funny thing is I was closing down the laptop the other day and a pop up ad came up for Match.com. Usually these ads only come up once you've been to the site. I tell him "Oh so are you looking for a date?" and he plays the "Oh I just use this laptop for Facebook and that's it. I don't know why that popped up." However I checked his history a couple of weeks ago and wouldn't you know, he had not only gone to Match.com but had looked at a profile of a woman only about 30 minutes away from us. Not going to work and looking up dating profiles. You're a piece of work!!