i'm not sure from your post why termination is inevitable?

i have seen my t for five years, sometimes weekly, sometimes with a couple months in between. i am very attached to him. this is a problem for me in that i don't like to get attached to people. when i told him that he was important to me and that i cared about him and that i felt attached, he took that as a good thing. his words were, 'if it inspire positive feelings in you, i'll take that.'

he's constantly trying to get me to 'feel the love' (in my life that is) so he sees this as a good thing. i'm still undecided