Ducktailing off of other people's comments. One thing I've learned is that it's always better to be friends first that way you do get to know the person. Don't worry about the 'what-ifs' or does he/she really like me because it will happen naturally and when it's supposed to. As for your anxiety and depression symptoms, I'd suggest working on yourself and enjoying your own company before letting anyone else in - that way you won't feel dependent on another person for your own happiness. Everything will be okay - just be patient.