You're right, I have no touch with diagnosed people. But in my country of Serbia, and our health system, our official knowledge about Cluster B personality disorders... I think that there is no person in my country with this diagnose. I feel that a health care provider would say to this person with these types of issues: "Come on... don't you have something better things to do than to bother me with these little problems?!"
I understand that you are seeing me as a person who maybe is playing of doctor, diagnosing people.
In my country its not even recognized a condition of for example PTSD, effects of alcoholism on people who are living with alcoholics, codependency... People who read about it on internet, knows much more about these dynamics and characteristics than an old health care provider who wont bother about getting new knowledge in his field cause his salary is too small.
You don't have to trust me, but its just it.
Of course, without official recognition and diagnosing of it, there is a wide range possibility of slipping into wrong type of personalities, but one thing I'm sure, only reading about it feels like I got a new pair of eyes for dysfunctional patterns of behaviors and saved a lot of my time and nerves in everyday situations.
I apologize for posting here without strong evidence of dealing with diagnosed person in my surrounding, I am just guided by personality characteristics that strikes me as a fresh healthy air.
Thanks for your replies and if this post needs to move, I am absolutely for making an order.