He seems to have some serious issues. It seems like neither of you guys can communicate and that you guys barely know each other. It's nothing you build a relationship on. I notice that you don't really communicate either, like with anyone who replies on here, it is like we don't even exist. If you treat your husband like that and he treats you in a similar manner, well, I can see why things don't go well then.

If you don't have any feelings for him and just want him around to produce money and find him a drain on yours, maybe it IS time to break things off? He doesn't seem any happier with you than you with him so it is probably mutual. I think you probably need to realize he is not healthy and if you can't or don't want to support him, it's not healthy for you to live with him and just keep talking about how bad he is. It is your only life and you decide if you want to spend it like this.