my mom is in jail for six months for a financial crime and I am her 14 year old daughter. I was thinking of how things will be when she comes back home ,isn't kind of weird now that now she is a criminal that went to jail and she will order me around? I mean isn't that kind of hypocritical (kind of funny as well since she was being ordered around for the past five months). I have no problem with her though as other than this misdeed she has been a good mom to me.

No it wouldn't be hypocritical, (although I can see why it could be) but parents guide us from experience. So your mom would be guiding and parenting you from a first hand experience of what its like to make the wrong choices, and face the consequences for them, no matter what the reasons are that may lead you there... Me personally? I appreciate knowledge that was earned and not read in some textbook. That's not to say I wish one of my parents had gone to jail, but yes, I would take "stay out jail" and "make the right choices" lessons more seriously from someone in the know. They would be readily accepted by me... But that's just me

also, is this weird, I have talked to my on the phone while she is there and for some reason I feel more comfortable being open with her about anything now then when she was actually here. Any reason why I would feel that way now?

Not weird at all no! You see your mom as an actual humanbeing now. One who is capable of making mistakes and exercising bad judgment. This makes her more relatable to you on a personal level, and will hopefully strengthen the relationship between you 2.

another weird feeling I have, I just realized now that if my dad was the one in jail I would feel a lot worse. I wonder why though. I like them both equally and neither committed a crime before , hell my dad is probably more strict