As far as 'anywhere' with my SO? Serious discussions with both parties having realistic points made and compromises given, is important. Ideal/fantasies are nice and all, but not always realistic. I, have a valid reason to keep my various commutes within a certain mile radius, and that's a serious consideration.
Would I move to a place with a white picket fence, just because it's a white picket fence? Probably not. If a place in an ideal location, travelwise, had a white picket fence, and I really liked white picket fences, then that's just a bonus.