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I just wanted to state my feelings about members allowed in multiple rooms at the same time. I feel this leaves the chat room an unsafe place when a member is in a vulnerable state and there is another member that is triggering and obnoxious. It is then impossible to go into a different chat room to get away from them and the other alternative is not to be in the chat room at all or go to a chat room that has no members, which defeats the purpose of being in the chat room to begin with. Then it also leaves the vulnerable member open to be followed to other chat rooms, teased and taunted and stalked(Bullied). This is just a dangerous feature to a population that is already struggling with many issues. They do not need to be further open to attack from those with a more aggressive mental disorder that are not in a state of controlling it well yet.
Thanks for listening.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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