some cultures don't look as a sign of respect to those who are in positions of authority.

instead of looking straight in the eyes and smiling (and perhaps wrestling a little over who has the firmest grip on a handshake) there might be a lowering of the head and aversion of the eyes.

i always thought it weird that i kinda do that (or have the urge to do that) in therapy. i mean... the first time i met him i looked him in the eyes and smiled and pumped his hand around a little (though hardish to do that when he decided to play dead). but now i have this being unable to look at him thing...

he lowers his head right back at me now. its a bit funny really... i think he can see me approaching from out the window so sometimes he meets me at the door. opens up the inner door and kinds stands to gesture me down the hallway. and head lowered kinda. maybe... it is trying to make it easier for me to look at him and smile at him. i try but i guess i look so freaking nervous...