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Originally Posted by Depletion
The transference is on the table, we have been talking about it for the last month; and she has know about the obsessiveness since the beginning (it's a long standing pattern). What do you mean by consultation? Are you suggesting another T? I don't know if I can afford that, and I see her tomorrow. Maybe I should just raise my concern at the beginning, I mean about the vulnerability seduction thing? Maybe I should just step out of a few minutes after I tell her?
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Yes, I was thinking an outside T consultation. I guess I would be honest about your pattern then, but I don't see why you'd leave the room. My only concern is that she seems to have very loose boundaries, and there's a big part of you that enjoys that, but not always for the healthiest reasons. Transference work is intense and can be destabilizing; it requires both a skilled and consistent and contained T to handle it properly.