To be fair the reason I don't have NPD on my list of diagnoses is because when I first joined it was so quiet in this forum I was scared of being judged. Besides it's not NPD it's traits dammit. (Also there's only enough room for so many diagnoses. One needs to pick the most pertinent.)

NPD is a scary diagnosis. The stigma of BPD can be bad but most people haven't heard of it where as every man and his dog "knows narcissism is bad."

Now I don't because I feel that if I were to change it people would just think I was trying too hard to fit in. (I'm also still fairly certain it's wrong? I dunno. Am having a totally borderline crisis of identity right now lol Still definitely think pdoc is an a*hat though.)

Incidentally that is an opinion I hold of some people I have seen here.