is there a local community agency or one of the local universities that could offer therapy on a sliding scale. Money is a huge issue for me also, so I see someone for $5 at a local social services agency. They utilize students, but it's not bad. They get good supervision. In the past, I have seen therapists at a local university also on a sliding scale (at times for free). When I was in school, therapy was covered by the school insurance, so I was able to see someone for free at their health services... Just a thought.

Have you been able to talk with your friend again? Have you been able to take care of yourself during all this?