It aggravates me to no end when people say stuff like that. It's not a joke. And yeah, you can't really tell people you are because they do treat you differently. And look at you differently. I've had someone say the "Oh you forgot your meds didn't you" thing also. They never said it again after that because i'm pretty sure they could see the rage in me. It hurt me also... It would be nice if people wouldn't be complete butt heads sometimes.