Recommended reading:

Fat?So! Because You Don't Have to Apologize For Your Size by Marilyn Wann

Bountiful Women: Large Women's Secrets For Living the Life They Desire by Bonnie Bernell

Self-Esteem Comes In All Sizes: How to be Happy and Healthy at Your Natural Weight, Revised Edition by Gary Foster and Carol A. Johnson

Nothing to Lose: A Guide to Sane Living in a Larger Body by Cheri K. Erdman

Big Big Love, Revised: A Sex and Relationships Guide for People of Size (and Those Who Love Them) by Hanne Blank