Thanks for getting back to me, Christina!

He did start going to a doctor back in January. I made the initial appointment, and he continued to make appointments from there. He went 2x a week for about 3 weeks, until that insurance ran out.

I urged him to buy the new insurance and found another doctor who took it. He reluctantly paid for this expensive insurance and agreed to go.

I ended the relationship at the end of February, and he texted me in March to tell me that he had an appointment set up. I have access to his insurance account so I know that he went once, then didn't go again.

I feel hasty in breaking up with him, he was getting help. But he still COULD get help and he's not. I have to come to terms with that.

You're right, I can either stay patient and strong and see where this leads, or I can move on...I thought I'd be able to move on much easier than this. I've gotten over every relationship I've been in within a few months. Not this time, 6 months later & I still cry all the time.