I would like for the man I married to show some interest in me, to let me know that I am important to him other than when it is our anniversary, Xmas or my birthday. I am human and I need to be loved the other 362 days of the year too - RIGHT?

I would love for us to do things together outside the house, for him to leave his precious computer and sit by me while we watch tv together, for him to come to me and hold me and for me to not always have to ask to be held or to have kiss, dont yell so much. etc. --you get it, the basic things I feel most married people do together and for each other.

And Yes, he has shown these actions before and when he does he is really good at them and he leaves me feeling wanted & loved...... but then he goes back to his computer and the life he lives there and forgets all about me.

...... I feel left out and alone most of the time in this marriage