(((Just))) Ok I'm sorry I said you were freaking out.

okay... I was there... but I don't recall anyone telling anyone else they could NOT chat. There were 2 others in chat that had been there quite a while and are more shy than you, and I, and the others who were chatting... which is why I asked if they had something they wanted to share.

Yes, you had asked for someone else to say something. I had PM'd some to see if they wanted to continue without waiting for everyone to talk, to open their own chat room... there were a few newer ppl who might not have known that was possible.

It takes quite a while to have an all-around chat when there are so many in one chat room... and often the quiet come, sit, read, and leave without ever getting to say anything. Also, many can't type near as fast as some of the rest of us, or maybe even read that fast and they have trouble keeping up so they don't have a chance to jump in.

I saw nothing wrong with you asking someone else to say something. You obviously are upset, you were upset in chat, that's why you were able to have so much time to vent... that's why we go there, and why many ppl sit and listen because we all need ppl there when we do need to vent.

Asking for others to share too should not have stopped you from continuing to share... there are often more than one conversation bouncing off those padded chat room walls.

Please don't leave... you are going through a lot of changes right now, and maybe we here are all part of it too... in any event Ihope you feel better soon, and feel welcome to return when you can.

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<div class="foot">(Edited by SkyBdark on 08/16/04 10:14 AM.)</div>