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Old Aug 20, 2014, 12:47 AM
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Originally Posted by Rhapsody View Post
It has been brought up before and we did go some 17 years ago..... it helped some, but hubby went back to his old ways in time - he generally does after being good for a while. *sigh*
Did your counselor ever teach you HOW to break through his resistance or indefference and bring him back to constructively working on the marriage to get what BOTH of you want? This is a significant element of relationship skills which will teach at least one of you HOW to deal with a lazy, careless, indifferent, unloving, rejecting partner but it's more than I could tell you in this little forum, so google: relationship skills and learn all about it.