Jimmy I thank you for all the time and effort you have taken in helping me, but it has only made me sad and now having to realize that my husband just might not give a crap about any one, but him self any more (that included me) because......

I do know how to speak up for what I want in a non threatening way, I do know how to support and love him no matter what, I am a kind and loving wife despite all our up and downs, I dont mind the porn as long as I dont have to know about it or view it in any way...... and yet he still has the nerve to treat me as he does.

Past counseling has helped me in so many ways, and yet he seems untouched by it.

Now What?