Hi shakespeare47, I know that you're a nice guy, and I really don't want to take sides or add fuel to the fire, so I'm saying this only in the interest of harmony.
I think the wording in your responses to ifst5 might have come across as a bit aggressive. I could see myself getting a bit provoked by similar wording.
No biggie, it's just that all of us have such difficult lives already ... our biggest enemies are inside our minds ... let's be nice to each other here ... we're all here to help each other out. We lose enough friends out in the real world ... it would be really sad for us to lose friends here as well