Note the self-imposed moniker that I use on this site...it was one that I came up with after much thought. I used to think along the lines that it is better to regret something you have done than to regret something that you haven't done...however, as I've aged, I've come to regret many things that I've done. In my particular instance, I don't deal with the regrets well at all; my suggestion would be to consider your decisions carefully and think for yourself. I've learned that many of my regrets are the result of me following what other people thought would be good for me rather than doing what I knew was good for me. Hope that makes sense, and I hope that you can move on...