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Originally Posted by Tazmeena
He told me he needed to confide in his friends was bc he didn't know how to approach the situation. At first I thought he needed their advice not to make a decision. But bc he didn't want to hurt her. Yet I wonder what questions he had for his friends that would involve their age difference. Were they giving him suggestions to let her down easy?
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You are changing his tune now... Either he's been mixing up his explanations, you've been drastically misunderstanding him or you're making excuses for him. Idk which.
Because that ^ is not what you initially posted, this is what you said...
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Originally Posted by Tazmeena
His feelings grew for her, yet things came out of nowhere between us. He had feelings for me as well. He was torn and asked his friends for advice. They told him that he wasn't thinking about how things would be in the future for them. I mean, when he's close to his 40's, she'd be close to 60. That was really the deciding factor. Him and I make more sense. But he apparently did have strong feelings for her despite the age difference.
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Idk what's really going on in your relationship, since the facts keep changing, but if the relationship starts off with so much drama and red flags, I would cut my losses and run, because its starting off on such an ominous tone.