Thread: social anxiety?
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Old Aug 21, 2014, 03:57 AM
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For you what is the line betwen social anxiety and shyness. I guess someone would say the anxiety itself...and what is the diference betwen avoindant personality?
I classify somewhere on these. I just can't tell in which.
In the presence of new people is very hard for me to talk, I barely can say some words. I'm quiet... I suffer with what people may think about me when I do something embarassing, I avoid some social situations because I know they just won't work, because of my past experiences and I know they will make me sad and I don't have the hability to do them. But I don't feel anxious, not to much. I rather feel sad about it than anxious. I can't speak sometimes because I don't feel comfortable and I fear people won't like me and they will think I'm stupid. But there's no blush, or swetting, or heart racing, or shaking, any anxiety symptoms...not that I notice. Even so there's many times I fear I am doing stupid things under other people watching, and all I want is to running away and hide. If I have to I face not comfortable situations...I did that a lot. If it is importante I don't avoid them.
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