greentealeaves, I am female and didn't get married until I was 39, didn't meet my husband until I was 34-35! There's nothing wrong with "you". Maybe practice being "friends" with a few women (work, school) and getting a little more confidence/less shyness?

Where are you meeting the few women you're asking out? How soon do you ask them out after meeting them, etc.? I was shy when I was young and really liked "friendly" guys. It was a relief to just go have a nice day with a guy, maybe even in a group? Do you belong to a church group or fraternity/special interest/professional group of any sort? Activities they put on are often good activities to ask women to the first time.