So, I met someone recently whom I actually like. But, it's only been one date, and I want to keep myself in check. He seems like a very open and communicative guy, but I really want to take the time to get to know him before jumping in.

However, at the end of our first date, we had a pretty scorching hot make out session...while passion and attraction are great, I certainly wouldn't want for things to just burn out ....so, is there a way to backtrack a bit...dial it back and just get to know him? We didn't have sex but, because I'd had about two drinks too many, it definitely went further than it would normally go on a first date for me.

I don't want to send mixed messages and wouldn't want him to think I'm not attracted/interested. We've texted a few times since the date (two days ago)...I'd like to be responsive so that he knows I'm interested and not playing games but find myself wanting to text back immediately after he sends me a message...How to find the balance of not being/appering over eager but being open and communicative about wanting to get to know him better?

We're about the same age 46 and 45 and I've struggled with this kind of thing in past relationships. Just want to learn some lessons and try to do things in a way that would help promote something more long term and healthy.