Hi. I had the same thing from my family when i was a teenager and as a result i stopped eating and wanted to die. My mum was the last to notice i had an eating disorder. All her friends and relatives told her but she denied it untell i came clean and told her. She was actually angry with me when i told her and i felt like telling her it was her fault by keep telling me im plain and flat chested and telling me i had a fat but even tho i was the right weigh for someone my age. I couldnt understand why she was always puttng me down when she was the one who was obese. Maybe it was jelousy. Nobody at school ever said i was ugly it was just at home. When i think about it now and fer bf at the time was a bit of a pervert towards me and my sister, i think it was jelousy. Strangely enough me and my mum are good friends now. U dont know why they do it but please dont believe it. I think its your mum who has some kind of issues and hopefully she will change for the better like my mum did. Please be strong and tell your self these our her issues not yours. If you thought you looked good before she said this chances are you do look good especially as you are not a big headed over confident type. You do look good im betting and she is jelous of you.
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