Actually, my therapist is the one who encouraged me to talk to him about it. She said the more I didn't communicate with him, the worse things would get. At the time, I was pushing him away and wanting to be alone a lot. I'm in a better place now, so thought I would just keep him up to date.
I am now realizing maybe this just needs to be my own personal journey. One issue I have is I'm becoming more emotionally aware and he's, rightfully so, staying in his place. So, I get worried we're going to grow apart.
Definitely something to bring up to my T. next week.