Thanks every one for hearing us out - I have DID and my husbands porn viewing when found out by me (usually by accident) always puts my inner circle into chaos.... leaving the alter that holds a lot of my memories&pain from the years gone by of this drama hurt and deeply depressed - she does not trust or care much for my husband.

P.S.
For the person that ask what male would want to be friends with a woman with out having sex........ I am 47 and I have found a few men around 50 years old that are in my same situation and they too are looking for friend of the opposite sex for an emotional hook up, and not sex.

....... I will be back as I need to talk about my marriage in the days to come, as it does need help and even I can see that even when my DID is not being stirred up. Thanks.