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How does (or did-- just trying to include everyone here!) your husband relate to you going to therapy? How much do you include him in what's going on with T?
There are parts of the therapeutic relationship that he should know about, and parts that he should not.

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Funny you should mention this becaue I was just thinking about this topic myself. My husband sometimes seems weird about my therapy as well. He definitely doesn't understand the attachment, and I have not explained it. There are times when I am thinking a lot about things that have happened in therapy and I like to process externally with my husband. Yesterday, he kind of brushed me off, and I had the distinct feeling that he did not want to hear me mention T again. He changed the subject and I got the message. I know he supports my going and has compassion for my problems but there is a line that he doesn't want to cross. He has said that he is definitely not interested in therapy for himself, so that may be a clue about his reaction. After all, in a marriage when one person is changing the other has to change too, like it or not.