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So my husband has been living in Virginia for 8 months for a new job and I have been left alone to do what needs to be done in regards to packing the house up and sell it. Has has not once come home on a week end just to see me. He always links it to weekend seminars or other things. So I have maybe slept in the same bed as him 5 times in 8 months. No physical contact either. Anyway he said he was going to leave right after work Thursday night to come home for Labor Day weekend. He just called me to tell me that he will be leaving Friday instead because he has a hair cut Thursday after work. WTF! It is a simple mens hair cut. What you can't call and change it to Wed or another day? Do I not even rate! I verbally let him have it and hung up. I told him I could give a **** if he stays in Virginia it was the the point that I was not worth moving a hair appt.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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