My BF broke up with me 3 weeks ago. We had been together for over 8 years and had two children together and currently are expecting another one that was planned. I have been basically smothering for answers about why he broke up with me First he tells me that he fell out of love with me then he says he didn't like our relationship. We have struggled for years financially, we busted our butts at our jobs and never got to live life and do anything because we could barely pay bills. Well things started turning around for us this past summer with me graduating and him starting a business with a friend. He says he still has feelings for me and is still very physically attracted to me but just wants space and to live life single and free. Well that's fine and dandy for him I guess but that means I am now the only one taking care of the kids and having to find a place for us to live. He said he always thought I was too dependent on him and he didn't think I was ever happy. I was happy with him though and he just doesn't want to listen to what I am saying yet get's upset if I don't listen to what he is saying. I have been working really hard to give him his space and hoping that he will come around but I still see him because of the kids and he just likes to rub it in my face how happy he is now or how he is talking to X amount of girls. It's just salt in an open wound and makes me very upset. He knows that I love and care for him deeply so why is he doing this to me? If he didn't want a family then he never should of had kids with me.