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Originally Posted by clairekelly66
He is making no effort to talk to me about this, he sits looking at me or behind me waiting for ?? I don't know what. He also says that I am overreacting because nothing happened.
I asked him what he would do and he said he didn't know but that he would be upset.
Confused is not the word! I really don't know what to do. It has helped just writing this all down to be honest, but if there is anyone out there I would love to know what you think.
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He says he'd be upset, yet in the same breath says you are overreacting.
Something about your struggles in your marriage brought you to a vulnerable place where the attention of another man was alluring. Here your husband is seemingly brushing you off. Do you believe patterns have really changed, or were they covered up by learned 'masking' techniques?
How much therapy addressed the situation, then? And do you feel, therapy is worth your while now?