Well, you can't say that having BPD is boring!
I just thought that I had myself figured out when my therapist said, but think . . .
What is nature and what is nurture? What needs "fixing"?
Am I by nature reserved, withdrawn, reclusive OR
am I this way because I'm afraid of being judged?
I want to go with the first scenario (nature) and stop trying to fix me.
But she points out that I'm not by nature these things rather I am these things because I am scared.
Does "Why?" am I this way matter? As long as I can relax and accept myself for the way I am, does it really matter "why"?
Any insight?
to all.