Why do you call them "friend" - is that all they are or were they more? You talk as if you were intimate, but the friendship label implies a deeper meaning (based on the repetitive use of the word)...

Your story intrigues me, private msg me if you want, I want to know more - and help if I can.
For what it's worth, you sound as if you are someone who is not easily forgotten, or unwanted. I am sure your "friend" feels the same.