"Find what you like to do, then do it as well as you can".

That sentence is a typing exercise I probably typed 1000 times, waaay back in high school. Many years later I discovered that the teacher was giving us more than an excercise.

So, find what you like to do. Is it caring for children? GREAT! Find a way to immerse yourself into it, which allows you to grow and develop. Who knows, maybe one day you'll own a chain of very fine daycare centers.

Don't worry about the other stuff, and stay open to possibilities. The right guy will come along at the right time for you.

Good luck!