He knows I am bi and he really doesn't care, In fact Id go so far as to say he likes it. I live in a place where I don't need health insurance so It shouldn't be a problem. No he doesn't know but Ive told him before that I have a few months ago. I don't tell him because I can't take hurting him anymore and i don't want to think about that but i think where i have gone through a 'truamotional' time it just sticks with me i guess :/- I have no want in my mind for him because I'm already in a committed relationship and I couldn't and more importantly don't want my life without him. That doesn't mean to say i think he is perfect- i'm not that delusional (or maybe i am who knows). But i know i can and will get over it