Our issues all differ, but my story is the wife and I both had been snooping on each others FB accounts. Neither had anything other than past gf/bf's as friends but with my head not being screwed on right had HUGE issues. One of her "friends" was an ex that I totally despised as a human back in the day. Our solution... we got rid of FB altogether. Now we use the phone to stay in touch with the few true friends we have. My friends list was 205 people. Like in school days I've found my 5 or 6 real friends are still there. Not sure if the other 200 even know my account has been deleted. Technology can be a bad thing to some. It was mutual on our part and I'm not sure its a direction you personally want to go, but.... sigh... I'm glad we meant enough to each other to not let social media ruin our marriage. Best of luck to you!