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Originally Posted by lilodian4ever
Hi shakespeare47, I know that you're a nice guy, and I really don't want to take sides or add fuel to the fire, so I'm saying this only in the interest of harmony.
I think the wording in your responses to ifst5 might have come across as a bit aggressive. I could see myself getting a bit provoked by similar wording.
No biggie, it's just that all of us have such difficult lives already ... our biggest enemies are inside our minds ... let's be nice to each other here ... we're all here to help each other out. We lose enough friends out in the real world ... it would be really sad for us to lose friends here as well  |
I am really glad you posted this.
I could totally see where you were coming from Shakespeare but I don't really think ifst said anything wrong, she is just a genuinely nice person who wanted to explore the option that they were maybe not as bad as you think, but in her First post she even said that was just her exploring another option and that obviously you were most probably totally right. I don't agree with her original suggestion about these people as I imagine you ate a fully capably judge of character! But I felt really bad for her because she was just trying to see everyone else's point of view.
Lilodian4ever I wanted to say very much the same as you hit didn't think I was capable of wording it right without being offending or patronising, i really like reading both ifst' and Shakespeare's posts.
I am glad you have spoken to your wife Shakespeare and you both understand where each other are coming from a bit more. Makes life easier!