Ive been thinking about this recently, because things have changed. Its like theres Batman, and theres Bruce Wayne. Batman - even tho he has no supernatural powers - can do stuff that Bruce Wayne cant. Same with t. When t hugs me, its FOR me; to connect with me, to break thru my hard candy shell its not Bruce Wayne doing it on his own behalf. I complained recently that he couldnt DO that, because it made me feel things. Since that complaint, tho, i decided that maybe i should tear down that wall and let myself want things - wanting one thing probably relates to letting other things into my life. i trust him not to hurt me, and i know he is acting as Batman, not Bruce Wayne - that is, professionally, not personally.