When my niece was about 19 years old she got pregnant out of wedlock. It was not well received by my family (myself not included in that, I was happy for her)...some family members thought it to be a disaster - worries abounded. Now it is about 13 years later. After a rough start, they made it ... all of them. Give em support, if you can, because that's what people need. I hope that this works out for you and your family.