Thanks everyone, I'm feeling much more positive/ clear in how I deal with this. I know I NEED to stop snooping. Am making a conscious effort to stop. I don't think I'll mention the snooping when we finally get together & talk. I realize that I need to be clear in what I want. That I need to deal with my OWN insecurities & then explain them to him.

Me and my dog...yes, social media is an absolute nightmare & I do miss the days of just emailing your nearest & dearest, rather than the world! Maybe we'll decide to do something similar, or at least have 'media hour' every day, together, and that's it! hmmmmm, got me thinking, thank you