Thank you so much, guys! You are really caring people... My son's still not asleep as it turned out... so I've just been lying in his room... hubby took over now.
The medication just doesn't work on him- makes him worse instead! We gave him concerta for two horrible weeks and then not for two weeks... The doc wanted us to try yet another week... and NO... this is not the right med for our son! He gets even more violent and hard to handle. I'll call to tell the doc that we won't try concerta any longer... because it's simply not working. We need to try another type of medication.
Kicked hubby in his stomach yesterday...pulled my hair today... threw a sandwich right in our daughter's face this evening.... threw a metal tin trying to hit his sister... and much more... Restraining, drawing and writing to explain (when he is a tiny bit calmer), talk calmly and trying to prevent him from hurting us or himself. I feel so for my poor daughter! Of course I feel for my son as well.
Hubby feel useless because he can't cope and hasn't got the patience needed...

I'm sorry to be whining like this... I don't know what else to do right now. Thank you... for reading and caring!