I have only seen her 3 times. I am in the UK so I dont pay for treatment as we have the NHS so I believe her motives are Genuine.

I think it may be more to do with what you said about it possibly triggering me/us. I told her that I do often take breaks from the forum as I can find it triggering.

I think also it could be to do with the fact that on some forums you get a lot of shady characters, bullies or predators or people looking to take advantage of others.

I have been to other forums and this one seems so much better managed with much better members!