I don't go to chatrooms too often for the very reason you asserted. I am, however, very glad you voiced your hurt feelings whatever the consequences. That's extremely positive. I am really NON-assertive so I admire you for posting your feelings about the situation. I wasn't there so I can't say anything to that but I do hope you stay. Can you simply avoid chat for awhile? I know you have been hurt and I understand your feelings, I just wanted to weigh in my two cents and ask that you stay. If you don't feel you can, I completely understand and wish you all the best.
take care of you. You are the most important right now.
hugs
tina

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