i met a guy last week and thought he was alright cuz he used to be friends with alot of my friends. so i kinda liked him and i hung out with him monday and we kissed and i told him i didnt want to go farther than that yet, but he kept pushing me and kept trying to go down my pants even though i kept saying no and stuff and eventually i gave in and he fingered me. then he was like 'i dont want to get involved with you cuz im used to girls who move faster than you'. and i was like... you already frigen forced me into going farther than i wanted, how fast did you want me to go? and now i dunno. i feel like a *****. i think i messed up hugely.